People wonder why Anna haven't asked for her gold back? Why Anna even gave it to them?
The first question: Why Anna gave her gold to them? See when Anna got married, she was very very young. Just some 20+. She was already in such a confused and depressed mood as to what was happening till then, she didn't know how to respond when Mr.D. asked for the gold saying that it will be kept safe in the almirah that was there in his parent's room. And she also didn't recognize that this was part of a well planned drama by the family. And hence everything went onto their custody.
Now to answer the first question. Didn't she ask for the ornaments back when she realized the trap. Yes she did. What happened then?
Anna asked Mr.D. for the gold back. Talking directly to his parents was to be avoided. They made sure that. First few times when Anna asked Mr.D. for the ornaments, he kept acting as if he doesn't hear that she is asking him something. After a few more attempts from her side, he started to promise that he would get the gold back to her. But his promises are always unmet. He kept promising but never took any action. Now comes the trickiest part. Anna again kept asking him. And he went onto a different mode. He would start to cry (literally weep, with no tears), in front of Anna saying that she is giving him too much of pressure and he is unable to handle it.
This trick of crying, Mr.D., attempted multiple times. Each time he did that Anna felt that this is a drama. What the hell. You wicked fellow, how on earth you believed that Annakkutty will fall for your greedy spineless drama well directed by your father. Anna hates drama. Speak the truth, even if you lose your life Mr.. Show the spine.
At times, when asked for what is being happening, from his side or his parents' side, he would just shoot up some really hurtful words, hearing which Anna would just tear apart (one such thing is being called fatherless), or he would just beat Anna up. Or he would start throwing things here and there, break objects (he has broken many things at home, including Anna's mobile phone).
There are more to the drama. Many a times, he would say sorry and would promise that such things will not be repeated in the future. Anna would believe him then. But the cycle would again repeat. He would again torture. And would keep blaming Anna that she alone is the reason why he is behaving like this. He also tells that he has never been like this in his life, but Anna's behavior is what is making him do all these things. And Anna gets confused, guilty, and disrespected. He makes her feel guilty. She burns within. She doesn't know what is right. She can't feel what is going on in her life. The verbal and psychological abuses have started to affect her brain.
At times, when asked for what is being happening, from his side or his parents' side, he would just shoot up some really hurtful words, hearing which Anna would just tear apart (one such thing is being called fatherless), or he would just beat Anna up. Or he would start throwing things here and there, break objects (he has broken many things at home, including Anna's mobile phone).
There are more to the drama. Many a times, he would say sorry and would promise that such things will not be repeated in the future. Anna would believe him then. But the cycle would again repeat. He would again torture. And would keep blaming Anna that she alone is the reason why he is behaving like this. He also tells that he has never been like this in his life, but Anna's behavior is what is making him do all these things. And Anna gets confused, guilty, and disrespected. He makes her feel guilty. She burns within. She doesn't know what is right. She can't feel what is going on in her life. The verbal and psychological abuses have started to affect her brain.
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