Mr.D.'s presence has been hindering my recovery from my illness. Yes, he himself has caused this state of mine. But the non-cooperation towards my efforts for recovery by him and more chaos and drama being deployed everyday are shutting down my chances of recovery. Since Ayurmana proved to be effective in many ways in my illness, one assumption is that his absence has greatly aided it. Hence, as a trial mechanism of recovery, Mr.D. has been requested to stay away from me atleast for a few months, so that I recover and finish my PhD.
Two of my uncles visited his parents to discuss/inform the same. Mr.D.'s parents reacted this way:
- The moment my uncles said there is some marital issues between their son and Anna, Mr.D.'s mother started saying since eight years or so she knew that Anna is a bad lady, not valuing family. Anna is so bad that she has spoiled peace of mind of their entire family.
- My uncles said that Anna has illness and needs time to recover. And hence it would be ideal if Mr.D. can stay away from Anna for a few months.
- According to them, it's already 11 years of marriage, and hence there is no meaning of separation now. It would be good if my uncles can make me understand this precious piece of information.
- Mr.D.'s mother started crying saying that her son's 11 years got wasted. So, this was a business for them!
- They said Mr.D.'s father had undergone angiogram, six months back, my uncles should be careful in talking.
- The moment the word 'separation' came from uncle's mouth, they said: "Actually we have no complaints about her. We are extremely happy with her. We will never ask our son to move out. If she wants she can register complaint. But we need kid(Maria)." Uncles said: "This is not proper. Since Maria is a girl she needs to be with Anna only." The esteemed in-laws replied: "Come what may, we need kid."
- Repeated explanations from my uncles regarding my recovery made them make a very interesting point. It goes like this.
If Mr.D. moves out, he would have to stay alone and will have mental pressure. Hence it is also expected that Anna too stay alone(taking care of Maria and managing PhD and household) without any help(neither my Mom nor my brother should support me) and should undergo the same mental stress as Mr.D. undergoes. Only under this condition Mr.D. may move out. Makes sense right!
Btw, I'm bowed at their IQ level. Also it is to be noted that the above statement means that if my mother or brother helps me out, I can survive happily without Mr.D.. Yes, I meant HAPPILY! Then, what according to them is Mr.D.'s role in my life as a husband?
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